GAINING CONFIDENCE - Men & Women

1. SOCIAL BUTTERFLY - Work on becoming a social butterfly. Go out with your friends often and meet new people while at it.

2. BE FEARLESS - Talking with new should not feel like a chore, make it fun...Talk about fun things such as hobbies and things that you may have in common. That always ends up being fun and exciting!!.

3. SMILE - Work on smiling to the point it becomes as natural as breathing. Don't force if you are just not that type of person. But usually when you meet someone you like, the natural reaction is that you tend to smile more, so be around the people you like a great deal.

4. WHAT OTHERS THINK - Should not matter to you. Provided that you have more morals standards and ethics then you should not even worry about what other think of you. What matters is what you think you of yourself - that is good way to drive up your confidence. Just don't be some immersed in yourself that you forget to listen to some criticisms, because some criticism is good as it allows you to grow.

5. BE INVITING - dont be stand offish - What this tells other people is that you either have a BIG HEAD or have very little confidence in yourself that you feel the best way to deal with your insecurities is by pushing people away.