Here is the scoop so you ladies can easily approach a guy and not leave the guy thinking that you are either a playette or just plain too agressive (scary for a guy).
1. FIRST AND FOREMOST you need to have CONFIDENCE (Self assurance), that you can be rejected and dust yourself off and keep going.
2. GREET the guy you are interested in... Smile at him, without being too obvious let him know you are interested... Because men are not used to being approached by women, they need to be eased into it....
3. PAY HIM A COMPLIMENT - perhaps it's his shoes or the shirt he is wearing....Spark conversation as a result of the compliment. Keep the conversation going...
4. DRESS APPROPRIATELY- They way you present yourself is how others are going to perceive you!!.... Those short mini skirts and short shorts are nice and attractive, but that is the kind of attention you are going to get (You know what I mean - You can contact me at Aarao.Dossantos1@gmail.com).
5. AVOID TOO MUCH MAKE UP - Men appreciate natural beauty. If you do wear make up, wear it very lightly - the more attention you going to get (beauty is in the eye of the beholder).
6. BE YOURSELF - I know this sounds quite wierd when discussing women, but it happens to women as well. They get nervous just like men do.
7. DON'T PLAY GAMES - Playing hard to get is a turn off for some men - Games are just not part of their agenda. Giving him your phone number and not pciking up when he calls is just plain childish. ( There are those whom constantly complain of not being able to find a good man, but when they do find one, they don't seem to know what to do).
8. BREAK THE BARRIER OF PHYSICAL CONTACT - During your short conversation, find a way to touch him....If you are sitting next to each other, as you're talking touch his knee but careful not to rest it there until you both feel very much confortable with each other. At this point the purpose of touching him is to subtly let him know you are very interested in him.
9. GET AND KEEP HIS ATTENTION by having a vague conversation such as books, social events, hobbies...but do not try discuss personal things at that point....Show him you are a fun person to be around.
10. GETTING / EXCHANGING INFO for a possible date...Just suggest hanging out, perhaps going for drinks or quick bite. Suggesting a date is just too strong a word for someone you just met and may run him away. The purpose here is to not make too obvious that you are interested in a relationship with this guy, it just puts people at ease when you say "hanging out" as opposed to saying " Going out on a date"....
Any questions or further feedback don't hesitate to email me at Aarao.dossantos1@gmail.com
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lolol this is great....and yea that goes both ways...no playing games:)...but its very very good topic u started mr aarao:)...next time we go out we'll try this lolol
ReplyDelete10 good apllicable steps. but most girls dont read anything of substance anyway
ReplyDelete(books in #9 are more likely magazines) lol
Well done Aarao, that's really great advice!
ReplyDeleteThanks much all for the awesome feedback...Def come back and read up on interesting topics that I will be discussing here... STAY TUNED!!!.
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