Approaching Women

Approaching women  - There is no science to it....it is actually very simple... see the steps below;

1. The number one thing/ quality you need to have in CONFIDENCE - When you approach women, whether you are nervous or not, you have to appear calm, cool and collected.

2. If you are going to pay her a compliment, avoid the sexually charged compliments (you know what I mean!!), COMPLIMENT her on what she is wearing, perhaps her perfume, her earrings, the color of her dress/ blouse etc.

3. Approach with a smile - show her that you are happy with yourself , which  makes you appear confident - In turn it would help lower her guard. (If she is attractive then she gets approached very often and thus her guard must be up).

4. Ensure that you are clean - Women are very perceptive and observant as they will notice everything about you the minute you approach them...
                           a. You should have a good sense of style ( So fresh and so clean) - check out  www.GQ.com
                           b. Your teeth should be white and free of food particles and your breath have the smell of  mint.
                           c. Your hair and facial hair should be nicely groomed.
                           d. Your nails should be trimmed and clean.
5. Have the " I don't care atitude" - Act as though rejections don't faze you. We all have gone through rejection and the most sucessfull people in the world are those whom never let rejections keep them down, instead they use it as a fuel to keep going or to do better next time.


6. whatever you do, do not stare at any cost - It can be scare to the girl you are looking to attract. It may perhaps be better for to be pleasantly surprised as opposed to seeing you from across room staring at her and stalling....

7. DO NOT BE FLASHY - If you are looking to attract a gold digger then by all means keep doing what you are doing.....If you are looking for a simple, down to mars girl then be as simple possible without being too simple. Have style, coordinate your colors, but just don't coordinate from head to toe (mix and match - with elegance).


8.  Don't use those LAME lines - BE yourself, don't try to be someone else you are not. Women appreciate honesty, they know you dont have a Hummer nor a Bentley, but if you are able to make them smile/laugh you are a shoe in... LISTEN to what she has to say, BE engaged in the conversation, BE creative in how you ask for her phone number (Don't be too straight forward and tell her to give you her phone number). Ex. I would love to get to know more about you, how can I get in touch with you?

9. Make her your center of attention for that period of time. - Don't even try looking at another girl across the room with the red tight dress, the minute she sees you do that, she will think you are DOOSH......

10. Make physical contact - it could be a kiss on the cheek or a soft playful touch on her arm or back. Once you break that barrier, you know at that point that she feels confortable enough with you to let you touch her at all.